150 Engaging Never Have I Ever Couple Questions to Deepen Your Bond

Dating 101

11 Mar 2025

13 min read

By Shelly Standford

Playing Never Have I Ever is basically a fun little trap… in the best way. You never know what surprises are gonna pop out—maybe your boo once re-gifted a candle from their ex, faked a smile over a gift they lowkey hated, or has never paid for their own Netflix account (oooooh). It’s a chill, no-pressure way to spill secrets, laugh it off, and level up your connection without it feeling like a therapy sesh. Never Have I Ever couple questions will level up your game—and we’ll be glad to suggest some!

Never Have I Ever isn’t just a game—it’s the vibe. Perfect for couples who wanna bond, laugh till they cry, and maybe spill a lil tea. Whether you’re chilling on the couch or on a spontaneous road trip, this game’s your go-to for turning convos from basic to deep real quick. The rules? Stupid simple. The questions? Anything from “Have you ever had a cringe pet name?” to “Spill the tea on secret admirers.” Flirty, funny, or a lil spicy—your call. Either way, it’s a fun ride.

How to Play Never Have I Ever

Playing Never Have I Ever is easy and requires no special setup. Here’s how you can enjoy the game:

Pick Your Style: Wanna keep it cute and chill? Use fingers. Wanna spice it up? Bring drinks, snacks, or even candy (who said shots were mandatory?). Up to you, bestie.
Make Your Move: Take turns saying “Never have I ever…” and drop something juicy like “Never have I ever gone on a blind date.” Bonus points if it makes your partner gasp.
Spill or Sip: If your lover has done it, they either put a finger down, take a sip, or spill the tea. No hiding, we’re here for the drama (in a loving way, ofc).
Keep It Rollin’: Go back and forth, and watch the cute chaos unfold. From LOLs to deep confessions, you’ll be learning all kinds of unexpected stuff about each other.

You can keep things chill or totally turn up the flirt—Never Have I Ever is super versatile. Play it on a double date, spice up a surprise date night, or even bring the chaos to a long-distance video call (FaceTime confessions, anyone?). The only rules? Keep it fun, stay unfiltered, and enjoy the wild, cute, or downright unexpected stuff that comes out.

Benefits of Playing Never Have I Ever

Playing Never Have I Ever isn’t just fun—it’s a total relationship power move. Here’s how it secretly levels up your connection:

Gets You Talking: Suddenly you’re chatting about things you never thought to bring up—exes, embarrassing childhood moments, or that time you tried to cut your own bangs. Oops.
Trust Fall Vibes: Real talk = real bonding. When you both get a little vulnerable, it builds that emotional glue (aka intimacy and trust).
Major LOLs: From cringey pick-up lines to “yes, I did eat an entire can of whipped cream,” the laughs are non-stop—and laughter = love language.
“Wait, same?!” Moments: Turns out you both had a crush on your friend’s sibling, sang karaoke way too seriously, or accidentally broke a heart or two. #Bonded

Types of Never Have I Ever Couple Questions

The Best Never Have I Ever Questions

Never have I ever lied to someone in this room
Never have I ever given a fake name
Never have I ever pretended I was someone I’m not
Never have I ever pretended I was ill as an excuse
Never have I ever lied to get out of going to work
Never have I ever lied to my boss
Never have I ever lied to my co worker
Never have I ever cheated on a test or exam
Never have I ever skipped class
Never have I ever hit a parked car
Never have I ever stolen anything
Never have I ever dined and dashed
Never have I ever not paid a train fare
Never have I ever trespassed
Never have I ever snuck into a concert or music festival
Never have I ever spent more than $100 on a night out
Never have I ever pulled an all-nighter
Never have I ever hitchhiked a ride
Never have I ever been sick on public transport
Never have I ever broken a bone
Never have I ever noticed someone in this room is phoning me and ignored it
Never have I ever edited my selfies
Never have I ever returned something after I’d already worn it
Never have I ever got a tattoo
Never have I ever had a speeding ticket

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Easy and Lighthearted Questions

Never have I ever forgotten someone’s name
Never have I ever forgotten a parent’s birthday
Never have I ever had an argument with a sibling
Never have I ever been nostalgic for school days
Never have I ever stolen someone else’s Netflix login
Never have I ever cried over a sports’ result
Never have I ever won a board game
Never have I ever completed a puzzle
Never have I ever played a musical instrument
Never have I ever learned a dance routine from TikTok
Never have I ever cooked someone a meal
Never have I ever ridden a bicycle
Never have I ever run a half marathon
Never have I ever spent the whole day in bed
Never have I ever had a screen-time of over four hours a day
Never have I ever smashed a phone by accident
Never have I ever pretended to be someone else
Never have I ever lied about my age
Never have I ever pretended my phone ran out of battery
Never have I ever failed my driving test
Never have I ever had a hangover
Never have I ever had fast food after a night out
Never have I ever eaten a whole packet of sweets in one sitting
Never have I ever eaten food from a bee hive
Never have I ever regretted a decision I made on a whim
Never have I ever played strip poker with a partner

Deep and Meaningful Never Have I Ever Questions

Never have I ever stayed friends with an ex
Never have I ever lied about my relationship status
Never have I ever broken someone’s heart
Never have I ever had a long-distance relationship
Never have I ever kissed someone I met online
Never have I ever sent a love letter
Never have I ever gone on more than one date on the same day
Never have I ever had feelings for my friend’s partner
Never have I ever given my number to someone and immediately regretted it
Never have I ever drunk-dialed an ex
Never have I ever told my best friend a lie to protect their feelings
Never have I ever had a crush on one of my closest friends
Never have I ever donated blood to help someone in need
Never have I ever had a deep conversation with a partner about our future
Never have I ever felt embarrassed about something I did in front of my partner
Never have I ever had an argument with a partner that lasted all night
Never have I ever written a poem for someone I love

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Funny and Quirky Questions

Never have I ever created a fake social media account to stalk someone
Never have I ever walked into a glass door
Never have I ever worn dirty laundry because I had no other clothes
Never have I ever stolen someone else’s lunch from the office fridge
Never have I ever finished an entire book in one sitting
Never have I ever watched a scary movie and regretted it instantly
Never have I ever given the wrong person a text meant for someone else
Never have I ever played more than one game at the same time
Never have I ever cut or dyed my own hair and messed it up
Never have I ever gone scuba diving and freaked out
Never have I ever gone skinny dipping
Never have I ever been to a nude beach
Never have I ever parked my car in a weird place and forgotten where it was
Never have I ever blamed someone else for something I did
Never have I ever gone on a boat ride with a partner and gotten seasick
Never have I ever used social media to flirt with someone
Never have I ever handcuffed myself to a partner as a joke

Flirty and Sexy Questions

Never have I ever been to a sex shop
Never have I ever Googled sex positions
Never have I ever had a sex fantasy
Never have I ever acted out my sex fantasy
Never have I ever role-played in bed
Never have I ever had a favorite sex toy
Never have I ever used handcuffs or something similar
Never have I ever sent a nude picture or video
Never have I ever sent a sexy selfie on a dating app
Never have I ever sexted someone while doing something mundane
Never have I ever sent a dirty text to the wrong person.
Never have I ever had a one-night stand
Never have I ever slept with someone whose name I don’t know
Never have I ever had sex in a public place
Never have I ever had sex in the sea/a swimming pool
Never have I ever eaten food off a partner’s body
Never have I ever sucked my partner’s toes
Never have I ever given or received a lap dance
Never have I ever tried bondage
Never have I ever played strip poker
Never have I ever kissed more than one person in one day
Never have I ever had to hide a love bite
Never have I ever done the ‘walk of shame’
Never have I ever had a sex dream about someone in this room
Never have I ever had sex with someone in this room
Never have I ever had a sex dream about someone else when I was in a relationship

Dating and Relationship Questions

Never have I ever gone on a blind date
Never have I ever asked for someone’s number
Never have I ever said the wrong name on a first date
Never have I ever used a dating app
Never have I ever fallen for someone at first sight
Never have I ever stalked my crush’s social media
Never have I ever been on a picnic date
Never have I ever been on a trip with a partner
Never have I ever gone to a strip club with a date
Never have I ever had a date at a professional sports game

Weird, Uncomfortable and Gross Questions

Never have I ever Googled my own name
Never have I ever created a fake Instagram to stalk someone
Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone
Never have I ever ignored someone I knew in public
Never have I ever hidden from someone I live with
Never have I ever lied to leave the club early
Never have I ever fake-cried to get something
Never have I ever paid for a gym class and not attended
Never have I ever not worn deodorant
Never have I ever picked out a wedgie in public
Never have I ever treated a pet like a baby
Never have I ever eaten something gross
Never have I ever eaten leftover food that’s probably gone off
Never have I ever eaten what I knew was someone else’s food
Never have I ever eaten dog or cat food
Never have I ever eaten a bogey
Never have I ever bitten my toenails
Never have I ever popped someone else’s pimple
Never have I ever used someone else’s toothbrush
Never have I ever done something so bad in public that I’d still cringe to think about it
Never have I ever recreated an I’m a Celeb… Get Me Out Of Here! eating trial
Never have I ever pretended I was a guest on a talk show
Never have I ever fancied a friend’s parent
Never have I ever been attracted to a cartoon character
Never have I ever given a partner an embarrassing pet name
Never have I ever caught my parents having sex

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Juicy Gossip Questions

Never have I ever lied in this game
Never have I ever cheated on anyone
Never have I ever flirted with someone I knew was already taken
Never have I ever kissed a friend’s ex
Never have I ever kissed a friend’s sibling
Never have I ever fancied someone in this room
Never have I ever pretended to enjoy a blind date when I really wasn’t feeling it.
Never have I ever slipped into someone’s DMs
Never have I ever given out a fake phone number
Never have I ever gone back to an ex
Never have I ever been in an open relationship
Never have I ever lied to a partner about where I’ve been
Never have I ever looked through my partner’s phone
Never have I ever forgotten a partner’s birthday
Never have I ever left something behind just as an excuse to go back
Never have I ever snuck someone into the house
Never have I ever told someone’s secret
Never have I ever been in trouble with the police
Never have I ever kissed on a first date
Never have I ever done a nude streak in public
Never have I ever mooned someone
Never have I ever gone commando
Never have I ever had a mind blank from being drunk
Never have I ever dated or hooked up with someone 10 years older
Never have I ever dated or hooked up with someone 5 years younger
Never have I ever hooked up with someone in this room

Friendly Never Have I Ever Questions

Never have I ever purposely left someone on read
Never have I ever forgotten someone’s name after meeting them multiple times
Never have I ever lied to my parents about staying at a friend’s house
Never have I ever lied to get out of plans with friends
Never have I ever borrowed something from a friend without asking
Never have I ever ruined an item of clothing I borrowed from a friend
Never have I ever re-gifted a gift I didn’t want
Never have I ever used someone else’s Spotify account
Never have I ever thought a friend’s baby was ugly
Never have I ever lied to someone about how cute their baby was
Never have I ever forgotten a friend’s birthday
Never have I ever been to a bachelor or bachelorette party
Never have I ever been a maid of honor
Never have I ever had a surprise party thrown for me
Never have I ever thrown a surprise party
Never have I ever gone to a party I wasn’t invited to
Never have I ever used a fake ID to get into a club
Never have I ever auditioned for a reality TV show
Never have I ever toilet-papered someone’s house
Never have I ever jumped into a pool with clothes on
Never have I ever travelled to a foreign country
Never have I ever met someone who pretended to be my friend
Never have I ever convinced a friend to dump a partner
Never have I ever convinced a partner to dump a friend
Never have I ever fancied my best friend
Never have I ever had a crush on a friend

Creating a Connection with Never Have I Ever

Playing Never Have I Ever is kinda like relationship cardio—it gets the heart going in all the best ways. By swapping embarrassing moments and meaningful memories, you’re not just spilling tea—you’re building real connection. The honesty? Major trust points. The vibes? Deep and flirty. It’s the perfect way to go beyond the small talk and really get to know your person. And hey, once you’re hooked on the feels, there are plenty more games out there to keep those deep convos (and laughs) coming.

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Shelly Standford

After a devastating relationship breakup, I threw myself into the dating scene by registering on Hily. I had over 100 dates - some absolute disasters, some pretty average, and some that were actually great. So many stories to tell and insights to share with you guys!