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Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: A Love Story Nobody Saw Coming
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco broke the internet! The pop star and music producer are officially engaged and their announcement has sent everyone reeling in Hollywood and beyond.
This juicy celebrity news broke on their Instagram stories. Gomez, who plays Emilia Pérez in the TV Series, “Only Murders in the Building,” first sparked engagement rumors in August. Taking to Instagram, Gomez had posted a mirror selfie featuring her left ring finger covered by a double pink heart emoji. Later in November, the two spent a cozy thanksgiving together which further fueled the rumours.
As Selena Gomez shares photos of her marquise-cut diamond ring, fans and celebrities flood the post with congratulations and heartfelt messages. But wait, it gets juicier! While everyone is excited about the good news, sources say the engagement wasn’t just about this one romance. For America’s daughter, it marked the end of an era.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco: From Studio Buddies to Soulmates
Benny Blanco might not be a household name to everyone, but he’s been behind some of the biggest hits in the music industry. Think Ed Sheeran’s “Shape of You,” Rihanna’s “Diamonds,” and Katy Perry’s “Teenage Dream.” He’s got the talent, the connections, and now, Selena Gomez’s heart. Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez’s connection isn’t new—they’ve been linked through music for years.
Blanco and Gomez: Relationship Timeline
The pair reportedly first connected professionally in 2015 when Blanco worked on Selena’s Revival album. In 2019, they teamed up for “I Can’t Get Enough,” the music video where Blanco wears a teddy bear costume. While fans didn’t think much of their interactions at the time, sparks were clearly flying behind the scenes. Fast forward to November 2023, Blanco and Selena Gomez were spotted at multiple events, sparking dating rumors.
Not all love relationships begin with fireworks; some bloom slowly over time, just like Selena and Blanco’s. Their shared bond, understanding, and creativity remind us that the best relationships are often born from shared passions and connections.
Later in December 2023, Selena Gomez seemingly confirmed she was dating producer Benny Blanco. The Wizards of Waverly Place alum announced their romance through flirty Instagram interactions and pictures, calling Blanco “my everything.” On their first Valentine’s day, she posted cute photos of them captioned, “My bes fwend” to which he replied “das my bes fwen.”
On his birthday, she sweetly posted, “Happy birthday baby!” praising his emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent, and undeniable humor.
“I used to play a teddy bear in ur music video and now I get to b urs in real life… happy bday bb”
They’ve graced red carpets and spoken openly about their bond. Blanco, in particular, has expressed how much Selena means to him, calling her his “best friend” in interviews. Mentioning how he loves to spend time with her in the morning he said, “I’m a real morning person. It’s like our moment before the rest of the world wakes up.”
Stephen Colbert Wants Credit for Gomez and Blanco’s Engagement
While Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s engagement has everyone buzzing, it seems like Stephen Colbert is ready to take full credit for it. During Thursday’s monologue on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert, America’s dad couldn’t resist reflecting on her recent appearance on his show. He had asked Selena about her relationship with Benny. America’s daughter cheekily responded, “I’m not sure, but I’m having a great time.” Stephen Colbert took it as a cue to take matters into his own hands.
Colbert quipped, “Benny, you must be feeling pretty special if you think you can do better than this, OK? And as America’s dad, I need to know what your intentions are with America’s daughter right here.” Selena laughed, thanking him for the kind words—but Stephen Colbert wasn’t done.
After her engagement announcement, America’s dad proudly replayed the clip from her appearance.
“Now, I don’t want to take any credit for this engagement. No, I want to take all the credit for this engagement. Seems fair, right? I mean, I loosened the lid on the pickle jar of commitment. You’re welcome!”
Stephen Colbert, on Gomez and Blanco engagement
A Quick Recap of Selena Gomez’s Romantic Past
Selena Gomez has had her fair share of high-profile relationships. She and Justin Bieber were an on-again, off-again couple from 2010 to 2018. Their romance was the stuff of tabloids, complete with dramatic breakups, church dates, and cryptic Instagram photos.
Selena Gomez’s High Profile Beaus
Selena Gomez’s dating history is a whirlwind of relationships with some of Hollywood’s most notable names. From her first high-profile romance with Nick Jonas in 2008 to her latest engagement with music producer Benny Blanco, America’s daughter has had quite the journey through love and relationships. Gomez’s romance with Nick Jonas was short-lived but unforgettable, especially with the iconic “Burnin’ Up” music video. Following that, Selena briefly dated Taylor Lautner in December 2009 after they met on the set of Ramona and Beezus. Paparazzi attention made it difficult to keep the relationship private and so it ended.
Selena Gomez Finally Outruns Jelena
The defining romance in Selena’s life has undoubtedly been with Justin Bieber. The fans couldn’t just let that one go! From their public debut at New Year’s Eve in 2009 to their on-again, off-again relationship that lasted until 2014, Jelena dominated headlines. Despite numerous breakups and public scrutiny, they seemed to reconnect multiple times, including Justin’s attempts to reignite their romance even after Gomez’s relationship with The Weeknd.
When Justin tied the knot with Hailey Baldwin in 2018, it seemed like Selena had moved on too. Over the years, she kept her dating life mostly private, dropping hints in interviews and songs but never confirming much. That is, until Benny Blanco entered the chat.
Selena’s ventures post-Jelena include brief stints with Orlando Bloom, Zedd, and even One Direction’s Niall Horan. Her most surprising relationship may have been with Charlie Puth, whose confession of a brief, impactful romance sent tongues wagging. With her engagement to Benny Blanco now, it seems like it’s time for a whole new chapter of her love story.
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The Proposal That Had Everyone Talking
In her Instagram post, Selena Gomez revealed that Blanco proposed during a romantic Taco Bell picnic. Those were not words we thought we’d ever hear put together. Benny, who was recently mentioned in People magazine’s sexiest man alive issue, made sure the proposal was professionally captured. Blanco shared videos on his own Instagram Story and TikTok of a soundstage designed to look like a park. The setup was fitted with complete lighting and camera gear.
Benny Blanco proposed to Gomez with a marquise-cut diamond ring valued at approximately $225,000. The ring holds special significance, as it seems to nod to Selena’s song “Good for You.” The lyrics, “I’m a marquise diamond / Could even make that Tiffany jealous,” were definitely the inspiration for his selection.
Blanco and Gomez shared a Champagne toast along with their Taco Bell meal to celebrate the moment.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco Set off to Forever
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s proposal announcement featured multiple photos. First, Gomez shared a photo of her stunning diamond ring. Next was their casual picnic setting with Taco Bell and a champagne toast. Last but not least was a sweet moment of Blanco kissing her while she flaunted her engagement hand. “Forever begins now,” she captioned the post. Gomez also posted a joyful selfie in a cute gray cardigan, showing off the ring.
Blanco’s playful response to Gomez’s caption had fans swooning, “hey wait… that’s my wife.” Benny really put in the effort to create a memorable, professional experience for their engagement.
Where Does This Leave Justin Bieber?
Sources say Selena Gomez’s former flame, Justin Bieber is wishing her the best after her engagement to Benny Blanco. While he’s moved on with his wife, Hailey Baldwin, and their son, Jack, insiders say the news of Selena’s engagement still stung for a moment.
The End of an Era
Their relationship started when Justin serenaded Selena with his hit song “One Less Lonely Girl” during New Year’s Rockin’ Eve in 2009. Although they publicly denied any romance for a while, by 2010 they were attending red carpet events together. They went through multiple breakups and reconciliations over the years—splitting for good in March 2018 after attending church services and enjoying simple moments like bike rides.
Despite being happily married, he acknowledges that Gomez’s engagement marks the “end of an era”. The source explains, “Justin has lived a life, and now that Selena is engaged, it’s a reminder that everyone is moving forward.”
Is he though? We’re not so sure.
Justin Bieber’s Coded Message to Selena
Justin Bieber’s Instagram post with his wife, Hailey Bieber, has set the rumor mill spinning. Fans are convinced there’s a hidden message tied to his ex, Selena Gomez.
On Monday, December 16, Justin shared a peek into his Costa Rica getaway. This was just four days after Selena announced her engagement to Blanco. The post featured a carousel of photos, including a close-up picture of the couple.
But it wasn’t the mushy selfie of Hailey kissing Justin’s face that caught everyone’s eye—it was the background song, the haunting track All My Ghosts by Lizzy McAlpine. The track, though quickly deleted, had fans decoding the lyrics for hidden meaning.
“I can see it now the wedding of the year / I can see it now, he stands up there and wipes his tears,” are some of the standout lines fans couldn’t ignore. Lyrics like, “Oh, all my ghosts are with me / I know you feel them too,” added fuel to the fire.
After hearing the song, fans were certain Justin was sending a subtle message to his on-again, off-again ex of eight years. One user commented, “Y’all pls, why did Justin Bieber post a picture of him and his wife with All My Ghosts by Lizzy McAlpine a few days after Selena got engaged?”
What makes it even more interesting is that this was Justin’s first post since Selena’s engagement announcement—coincidence? Fans aren’t so sure.
Best Friend Taylor Swift is Ready for Selena’s Wedding
Best friend Taylor Swift is already ready for the wedding and has picked her role in Selena Gomez’s wedding to Benny Blanco!
After Gomez announced her engagement, Swift quickly expressed her excitement in the comments.
“Yes, I will be the flower girl!”
Taylor Swift on Gomez’s upcoming wedding
Taylor Swift and Selena have been tight-knit since their early years in the music industry, dating Jonas brothers at the same time in 2008: Swift with Joe Jonas and Selena with Nick Jonas. Their friendship has only grown stronger through the years, with Swift always showing up for her best friend’s important moments.
Celebrities React to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s Engagement
The engagement celebration didn’t stop with Taylor, there was a whirlwind of Instagram tributes from fans and celebrities alike. Jennifer Aniston, Ashley Benson, Nina Dobrev, and a host of other celebrities flooded Selena’s comments with congratulatory messages.
“Congrats lovey. So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️,” Ashley Benson wrote. Nina Dobrev chimed in with, “YES !!!! Congratulations!!!!! So happy for you both!!!!”
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Hailey Bieber’s Reaction to Selena Gomez’s Engagement
After Selena Gomez’s engagement to Benny Blanco went viral, Hailey subtly showed support with a double-tap on Selena’s December 11 announcement. With the proposal post reaching over 11 million likes, Hailey also shot Gomez likes on Instagram.
The model and wife to Justin Bieber has long been the subject of rumors about a feud with Selena, because she dated Justin from 2010 to 2018. However, in 2023, both women took to Instagram to shut down any lingering drama.
Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber Make Up
Selena addressed the gossip in a March 2023 Instagram Story, urging fans to stop the bullying and naming Hailey directly.
“This isn’t what I stand for. No one should have to experience hate or bullying.”
Selena Gomez, on fans’ treatment of Hailey Baldwin
Hailey responded with her own post, thanking Gomez for her support and highlighting the importance of online positivity. “We all need to be more thoughtful about what we post and what we say,” Hailey wrote. “Love will always be bigger than hate.”
Hailey’s latest show of support doesn’t come as a surprise. Justin has collaborated with Benny on multiple hits like “Somebody to Love” and “Love Yourself,” which only strengthens the bond between them.
Even Justin’s younger sister, Jazmyn Bieber, liked Selena’s post. Whether or not sparks fly again, one thing is clear—this engagement has everyone feeling the love.
What’s Next for Selena and Benny?
Gomez has always been candid about wanting a love that feels safe and supportive. In interviews, Gomez has gushed about how Blanco respects her and understands her world. “This is the safest I’ve ever felt,” she told Apple Music earlier this year.
Blanco, for his part, has been equally smitten. On The Howard Stern Show, he hinted at wanting kids with Gomez someday. “I don’t know a world where it could be better than this,” he said.
Selena Gomez Nominated Best Actress in Golden Globes Awards
The “Only Murders in the Building” star recently received two Golden Globes nomination for her role as “Emilia Pérez.” Being the daughter of film producer Mandy Teefey, Selena discussed in a recent interview how it felt to play the role of a mother.
“I got to play a mom in Emilia Pérez, and it was very sweet. However, I was intimidated. There is something about children that is fearless, and I appreciate that so much, and I miss it a little.”
Selena Gomez
Gomez co stars with Martin Short and Steve Martin in the comedy series.
With the wedding on the horizon, fans can’t wait to see what’s next for the couple. Will Taylor Swift actually be the flower girl? Will Taco Bell cater the reception?
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